— to be free from coercion, violence and intimidation,
— to choose the level of involvement and intimacy you want,
— to revoke consent to any form of intimacy at any time,
— to be told the truth,
— to say no to requests,
— to hold and express differing points of view,
— to feel all your emotions,
— to feel and communicate your emotions and needs,
— to set boundaries concerning your privacy needs,
— to set clear limits on the obligations you will make,
— to seek balance between what you give to the relationship and what is given back to you,
— to know that your partner will work with you to resolve problems that arise,
— to choose whether you want a monogamous or polyamorous relationship,
— to grow and change,
— to make mistakes,
— to end a relationship.
— to decide how many partners you want,
— to choose your own partners,
— to have an equal say with each of your partners in deciding the form your relationship with that partner will take,
— to choose the level of time and investment you will offer to each partner,
— to understand clearly any rules that will apply to your relationship before entering into it,
— to discuss with your partners decisions that affect you,
— to have time alone with each of your partners,
— to enjoy passion and special moments with each of your partners.
— to choose the level of involvement and intimacy you want with your partners’ other partners,
— to be treated with courtesy,
— to seek compromise,
— to have relationships with people, not with relationships,
— to have plans made with your partner be respected; for instance, not changed at the last minute for trivial reasons,
— to be treated as a peer of every other person, not as a subordinate.