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Amy Gahran, “Stepping Off the Relationship Escalator: Uncommon Love and Life”
Free to leave

If it is clear that you always have the opportunity to leave, you become much more aware of the reasons why you don’t want to. Also, consent is more obvious. Everyone pays more attention because they don’t assume they already know everything about the person they’re having sex with.

— Finn, queer and nonmonogamous